Soffiya - Romantik atau Realistik?

Haa.... Kepada mereka-mereka yang berkenaan sahaja tau ..;p

Korang yang ikut cerita ni mesti tau kan pasal heroin cerita ni.. Yaya...
Memula cerita ku tengok sebab cerita Khabir Bhatiar n Tiz Zaqyah yang berlakon.
Tapi, gerammm sangat ngan Ayah Yaya yang jadik haruan plus juara tinju berganda tu...
Padan muka kena bunuh.... (cerita ni memula macam cerita Danielle Steel)

So, Siapa yang Yaya akan pilih? Kamal atau Ilyas... Bacalah analisisku kat bawah dan kita tengok petang nanti apa ending cerita yang best ni.

Yaya - seorang yang menerima apa sahaja ketentuan Ilahi. Anak kampung yang innocent, dan teraniaya, terseksa tetapi pasrah dengan Suratan takdir.

Kamal - Penyayang. Sanggup buat apa sahaja untuk orang yang disayangi..

Ilyas- ku tak ambik port sangat. ;p boleh gitu? hehheh

Analisis/tekaan ku diumur 30an yang lebih kepada realistik a.k.a berpijak di bumi nyata:

Yaya akan terus bersama Kamal dan sedaya upaya menjaga Kamal yang bakal sakit tenat sebab Diabetesnya. Apatah lagi bila si Fiona yang cemburu buta (dengan ayah sendiri pun cemburu... memang selfish gilos) itu telah mati dibunuh Muiz (guardian angel Yaya). Yaya juga akan melahirkan zuriat buat Kamal dan mereka rujuk kembali la.. (sebab semalam Kamal dah ceraikan Yaya). Tapi, Kamal makin lama makin makan hati sebab dia tau Yaya tak cintakan dia sebaliknya cintakan Ilyas....

Analisis/tekaan ku sepuluh tahun dulu (yang senantiasa di alam romantik khayalan ;p)

Yaya masih mahukan Kamal out of her duty sebagai wife Kamal tapi Kamal berkorban demi kebahagiaan Yaya yang sebenarnya cintakan Ilyas. So, Yaya akan besarkan anak Kamal dan hidup bahagia dengan Ilyas... Ilyas pula menjadi hero dengan mengambil anak Si Fiona (curang) dan menjaga baby itu. So, jadikla mereka sekeluarga keluarga enampuluhsembilan. Tapi, diorang tak kesahpun sebab diorg dah duduk kat UK kan... tak siapa pedulik mereka berempat.... Kamal? eh, tertinggal pulak. Kamal.... err, kira dia meninggal la sebab Diabetes sebab dia taknak ikut cakap doktor suruh potong kaki instead dia lepak2 lagi..... ;p (kata dalam alam romantik.. semuanya indah...)


So, sekian sahajalah analisis ku untuk cerita ini. Jom tengok petang ni apa jadik kat Soffiyya ye....
Jam 7-8mlm kat tv3 tau kengkawan...... jangan lupa!

Kisah Survival Budak 3 tahun..

Kisah ini baru je terjadi bulan Oktober lepas....

Seorang budak berumur 3 tahun menenangkan dirinya dengan teddy bear bernama 'Possum' dan makan makanan lebihan dalam peti ais dan minum susu selama 2 hari selepas ibunya tak bangun-bangun. Shylah Silberry hanya berkata, "Mak tak nak bangun..." Ibunya disahkan meninggal mengejut.

Petikan Berita:

WELLINGTON, New Zealand (AP) — A 3-year-old girl comforted herself with her favorite toy and ate cheese, leftover lasagna and milk for two days after her mother died unexpectedly in their New Zealand home.

The girl's uncle, Pete Silbery, told The Associated Press on Friday that Shylah Silbery managed to open the fridge and comfort herself with a teddy bear named "Possum" after Lauren Silbery, 28, died.

The family last spoke to Lauren Silbery on Oct. 19, he said. Two days later, they were worried enough to call a friend who lived near her Wellington home. The friend could see the girl inside the home, but not the mother, prompting the family to call police, Pete Silbery said.

Police coaxed Shylah to drag a coffee table to the door so she could reach the lock and unlock the door, before she told them, "Mummy won't wake up," Silbery said.

"I can only imagine her in there for that long, trying to wake Mum up as well," he said.

Shylah spent several days in a hospital recovering from dehydration and diaper rash.

"She's doing OK now. She's still bubbly," he said. "When we lowered the coffin into the grave at the cemetery, though, she pointed at it and said 'Mummy's in there.' It was pretty heartbreaking."

Authorities are awaiting the results of an autopsy but don't believe Lauren Silbery's death was suspicious, Wellington police spokesman Victoria Davis said.

AidilAdha

Salam Aidiladha semua.....

Kali ni raya tak disambut... bukan niat taknak sambut raya..
Tapi, food poisoning plus demam.

Seingat-ingatku, takpenah la muntah sebegini banyak...
Bagus juga muntah ye... bakteria2 jahat dalam badan tu dikeluarkan balik...
Itu cerita malam semalam...

Pastu hari ni, ok sikit... cuma demam aje.. sakit seluruh sendi-sendi ni.
Demam ni takde la tinggi sangat suhunya.. hanya 38.4C je...

So, boleh lagi la jalan2 kejap.. tapi berpusing jugak kepala ni..
Dalam kepala ni, banyak aje kerja2 yang perlu dibereskan.. sambil baring-baring pun boleh fikir kerja...

Dugaan betullah bila kerja demand our full attention but ade pula dugaan....
Sabar je la...

Lagi Pasal Pemakanan Ibu yang Menyusu....

Sumber-sumber dipetik dari bacaan di link ini....

• You need about 500 calories a day more than your prepregnancy intake if you breastfeed your baby.
• include extra protein for milk production, more calcium- and vitamin-rich foods, and more fluids than your normal diet.
• Continue to take your prenatal vitamins (unless your doctor tells you otherwise).
• Eat a varied, balanced, good-quality diet.
• Pay special attention to fluids; drink enough to quench your thirst. Many moms drink a tall glass of milk or water while nursing.

Foods to avoid:

• Avoid junk foods and empty calories.
• those that contain food additives and dyes, certain gas-producing foods (such as broccoli, cabbage, and beans), eggs, nuts, tomatoes, shellfish, chocolate, corn, strawberries, citrus fruits, onion, garlic, and some spices. To decide if a particular food upsets your baby, eliminate that single food from your diet and see if the symptoms disappear.
• Do not consume food in very large amounts, this may cause problems for a breast-fed baby. A half gallon of apple juice or orange juice, very large amounts of fruit, a whole jar of peanuts, or any other food consumed in unusually large quantities may cause your baby to have diarrhea or gas.
• Caffeine passes into breast milk and may cause your baby to have an upset stomach and be irritable
• Almost every drug or medication makes its way into breast milk. Some medications appear to have no harmful effects on your baby, while others are most certainly not safe. Talk with your pharmacist or your child's doctor before you take any prescribed or over-the-counter medications-be sure the medications pose no problems for your baby.

React positively to toddlers' behaviour

Jom baca pasal parenting .... artikel dipetik dari TheStar.com.my


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CHILDWISE
By RUTH LIEWWe often focus on what children cannot do rather than what they can do.

With toddlers and preschoolers, their limitations become magnified when they are compared to their older peers. We cannot marvel at their capabilities when we make such comparisons, and it affects our responses to their efforts.

Take a 14-month-old who is still working on his hand grip. He does not differentiate between edible and non-edible objects. When he is given a piece of bread in the same way he is offered a small ball, he will throw it down after picking it up. This is his obvious reaction.

When toddlers are engaged in typical behaviours, such as climbing up a table, running away, grabbing a toy, yelling in protest, how can we not view these behaviours negatively? 

We would say: “He is so stubborn,” or “She is really mischievous.” We would try to change these behaviours immediately. Before we start our usual responses, we must first change our mindset. Go for one that is of curiosity and focus on the child’s mind.

You may be able to offer the right kind of guidance when you stop to ponder on how your actions will affect his learning.

Your toddler gets a little aggressive with his young friend. Instead of chiding him, you may say to him: “You want to play with your friend, let me show you how you can be nice so that he will play with you.”

When your child refuses to co-operate and eat his dinner, respectfully let him leave the dining table. You can see him as a two-year-old who is longing for some control rather than one who is defiant. He may want his dinner later when he is hungry. << done!

Children see and hear things differently from adults. They do not make the same interpretations as they lack experience and maturity. They are curious as to how things work. They explore with their senses. Putting things in their mouth and throwing them down are what they do to discover the world around them.

For the above purpose, place objects that are washed and clean for your child and remove all breakable items. As he grows older, you will tell him and show him that certain things need careful handling.

Parents tend to prevent toddlers from getting near household activities like cooking, washing and sorting the laundry. But these are things that intrigue young kids, who want to be part of the family and do the same work. Try allocating simple tasks that your toddler can manage while you are doing the chores.

When he makes a mess eating with his fingers, give him the pleasure of cleaning up after himself. Of course, you can do it faster and cleaner but he enjoys it more. Be patient and give him the right tools to do the work. A child-size cleaning towel or a hand brush and pan. A small pail of soapy water that is only half-filled. Allow enough time for him to finish the job by himself. <<--- slalu je nak tolong basuhkan tangan syabil... cepat sket.. heh

Trust your child to carry out the task on his own without help. That is, if you have shown him how to do it beforehand. Refrain from grabbing the cleaning sponge from him. Your child will learn to give up when he cannot complete a task independently. Your action will only reinforce the notion that he is incapable without help. << must bear in mind nih... otherwise syabil jadi dependent.....

Send your child a positive message. Allow him to finish his task until he is completely satisfied and is proud of his achievement. He will grow to appreciate the effort he puts into his activities.

If you are challenged by your toddler’s curiosity and active exploration, make a list of behaviours that you tend to react negatively to. Write down also positive responses that you should work on. << checklist yang akan dibuat... (emm, baiklah)

As you practise these reactions with your toddler, you will observe clearly your child’s intentions and begin to understand him better. 

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Wordless Wednesday #1

Hujan-hujan ni best pekena cucur bilis.... 

Satu sebelas sebelas

1.11.11

Nak jugak abadikan tarikh best nih kat blog.... hehehe...
best kan tarikh ni?


agak2 berapa ramai lagi ye yang kawin/nikah/tunang ari ni ye?
yang pastinya baby yg lahir hari ni ada yang wakil malaysia untuk penduduk dunia 7bilion...
kecik-kecik dah wakil malaysia..... :)

yang pastinya, ku tiada peristiwa yang penting untuk mengabadikan tarikh ini...

susu Rania yang berjaya diperah: 11.5 oz (i've done better...)

jadual harianku di sekolah: hectic... (macam biasa)

beratku: sama aja seperti semalam.... ;p (hehehehe)

tarikh-tarikh lain yang best:

11.11.11

20.11.2011

mesti ramai yang chop tarikh-tarikh ni... duapuluh hb tu hari ahad.. lagi la ramai buat kenduri nak abadikan tarikh tu.... mak andam pun tak menang tangan.. :)